{"id":15828,"date":"2013-05-20T13:08:18","date_gmt":"2013-05-20T20:08:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/\/new\/\/?p=15828"},"modified":"2016-03-16T16:59:52","modified_gmt":"2016-03-16T23:59:52","slug":"522-color-psychology-what-color-is-my-psyche","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/522-color-psychology-what-color-is-my-psyche\/","title":{"rendered":"Color Psychology &#8211; What color is my psyche? (Dougall Fraser)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/bigstock-Rainbow-gradient-mesh-backgrou-16048412.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-15829\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/bigstock-Rainbow-gradient-mesh-backgrou-16048412-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"bigstock-Rainbow-gradient-mesh-backgrou-16048412\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>How do women and men&#8217;s psyches differ? What is color psychology at a deeper level? Dougall Frasier, a Cosmic coach and Psychic, offers his unique perspective as a gifted clairvoyant. \u00a0Plus, we&#8217;ll discuss YOUR colors and what they mean. \u00a0Our exploration goes beyond the superficial of what look good on you, and we&#8217;ll figure out how colors effect you at the soul level.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #008080;\">Show Summary<\/span><\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/fireitupwithcj.mywholelife.net\/RadioShows\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/05.22.13-Fraser-Segment-1.mp3\"><span>Link to Segment 1:<\/span>&nbsp;<\/a>\u00a0Psychology Research: A Psychic Perspective- How does a women and man&#8217;s psyche differ? \u00a0You will be amazed how much information is revealed through the energy field that\u00a0surrounds\u00a0each of us. \u00a0Find out what a clairvoyant sees when they look at your psyche and what it means. \u00a0Dougall Frasier offers his perspective on dark and light energy and a more neutral way of looking at one&#8217;s dark side.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/fireitupwithcj.mywholelife.net\/RadioShows\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/05.22.13-Fraser-Segment-2.mp3\"><span>Link to Segment 2<\/span><\/a>: Color Psychology: A Psychic Perspective- Each of us has a core soul color and each color has meaning. \u00a0How does knowing your color help in building your self-awareness of yourself and help you create more balance in your mind, body, and spirit?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #008080;\">Blog Post from our Guest<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>I\u2019ve had writers block. \u00a0Or is it blogger\u2019s block? \u00a0Whatever it is, I\u2019ve been blocked. My mind can conjure up a dozen good reasons as to why I haven\u2019t written a blog in almost six months. \u00a0Maybe it was reading some of the negative comments from the last blog that I wrote. \u00a0Perhaps it was the lawsuit against me based on a previous blog (don\u2019t ask). \u00a0The truth is that once our minds get used to a specific identity, it can be difficult to change. \u00a0For a long time I was in a good creative flow, and comfortable with the identity of being a writer. \u00a0I would come up with ideas and the words would flow freely. \u00a0I created goals and achieved them, like getting published on the Huffington Post.<\/p>\n<p>Then life happens. \u00a0I took a family vacation, and figured that I would stop writing to \u201crecharge.\u201d \u00a0Time passed, and I noticed that new ideas were not popping into my head when I sat down to write. \u00a0Slowly, my perspective transitioned from that of an author to a person with writer\u2019s block. \u00a0David would sweetly say, \u201cHow about we brainstorm ideas for a new blog today?\u201d \u201cYou brainstorm ideas for a blog today,\u201d I would sarcastically mumble like a 15 year old. \u00a0Admittedly this was the not the most mature response.<\/p>\n<p>I would lament with friends about having writer\u2019s block, constantly saying things like, \u201cI can\u2019t think of anything. \u00a0I\u2019m not inspired. \u00a0It feels like too much pressure.\u201c \u00a0Without realizing it, I became comfortable with the identity of not writing. \u00a0I spend a majority of my day advising people on how to jumpstart their lives. \u00a0Whether it is career, love, or spiritual life, we are guaranteed to get stuck somewhere along the journey. \u00a0The goal is to remind yourself to jumpstart your \u201cengine.\u201d \u00a0Today, I swore to myself that I would blog. \u00a0I know that writing will help me forge a new writer\u2019s identity, even if my first blogs don\u2019t flow freely from my mind. \u00a0The dominant voice in my head will no longer be about the perceived block. \u00a0I will push through the resistance and connect with my creative voice, understanding that the wheels may be a bit rusty at first.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you have an area of your life that is blocked. \u00a0Here are some simple ideas to jumpstart key areas in our lives.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Career:<\/strong>\u00a0Unfortunately, many people can identify with being out of work. \u00a0I often counsel clients who are struggling to find employment. \u00a0Lawyers, teachers, real estate agents and so many others have been affected in this economy. \u00a0These are all qualified people who need to feel an identity of productiveness. \u00a0I was recently working with a coaching client who came to me after having been out of work for over two years. \u00a0She was in her mid 30\u2019s and had been laid off from a six-figure salary job in finance. \u00a0\u201cThis week, I want you to call small companies in your town and offer to work a day there for free.\u201d \u00a0\u201cWhat? Why on earth would I do that? \u00a0Can\u2019t you just give me an affirmation to help manifest a paying job?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My client was pretty aggravated by this suggestion. \u00a0Let me explain my process. \u00a0If you are out of work, or even if your business is slow, your subconscious mind gets comfortable with an identity of lack. \u00a0You start thinking of yourself as an unemployed person. \u00a0You process it with your friends, family and in this case your coach. \u201cI am out of work\u201d repeats itself in your head, and this stagnant energy becomes a self-fulfilling manifestation. \u00a0We have to shift that energy and get it moving. \u00a0There are so many ways to feel productive during your day. \u00a0Call your local soup kitchen and volunteer. \u00a0Offer your services to a small business or non-profit organization for a short time. \u00a0The goal here is to end the day thinking I worked today. \u00a0If someone asks what you did today, the response will change from a demoralizing \u201cnothing\u201d to \u201cI worked.\u201d \u00a0This will powerfully change the energy of your identity, and will help you to manifest work. \u00a0At every job interview, the interviewer asks what have you been up to for the past two years. \u00a0Your response will shift to a more positive place, because you will have been keeping busy and helping others at the same time. \u00a0I have used this technique with my unemployed clients and have received an overwhelmingly positive response.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Romance:<\/strong>\u00a0I recently had dinner at our friend Sharon\u2019s house. \u00a0Sharon was giving us details on her new adventures in online dating. \u00a0She\u2019s never had a significant relationship and was reluctant to \u201cwaste time\u201d with the wrong guys. \u00a0We scanned some of the profiles of people who asked her out, and joked about some of the inappropriate guys who had emailed her. \u00a0I could feel her desire to find a good partner for herself, but she consistently turned down every date request for one reason or another. \u00a0When I asked why she did this, Sharon kept returning to the idea that she didn\u2019t want to waste time with someone who didn\u2019t have the potential to be her soul mate. \u00a0\u201cYou just need to go to a bar and make out with a cute guy,\u201d I offered.<\/p>\n<p>She seemed a little thrown off by that advice, but allow me to explain what I mean. \u00a0Sharon was identifying as a single woman who was unlucky in love, and just couldn\u2019t find a soul mate. \u00a0If you are in a dating slump, you need to let the Universe know that you are open to finding love. \u00a0I\u2019m not encouraging you to go have a one night stand, or to do something that makes you feel unsafe. \u00a0But sometimes, to increase your dating energy you need to just jump in there. \u00a0Have a date with a nice person, and flirt to experience some chemistry. \u00a0Don\u2019t expect him to be your instant soul mate, and don\u2019t start planning your wedding after one nice evening together. \u00a0In fact, it is more likely that you will not find a perfect match right away. \u00a0The point here is to be open to love, so that you can attract it from the Universe. \u00a0And as far as wasting time, I prefer to look at every bad date as an opportunity to learn what you don\u2019t want in a relationship. \u00a0After all, you will appreciate it that much more when you do meet the right person.<\/p>\n<p>If you are experiencing a romantic block, try going out on a minimum of three dates next week. \u00a0It can be through an online dating site, a blind date, or any other opportunity. \u00a0Remember, you are simply getting the energy moving by shifting to a more \u201cdateable\u201d identity.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fitness:<\/strong>\u00a0I tend to go through phases of eating well and going to the gym every day. \u00a0If I feel good as a result of a specific exercise, it can become part of my routine. \u00a0I find a class that I like and a teacher who inspires me. \u00a0The alarm clock rings and my entire morning is laid out. \u00a0I finish my cup of coffee, drive to the gym and am greeted by my favorite teacher. \u00a0I feel better about myself the more that I go. \u00a0I\u2019m stronger and I feel like I belong there. \u00a0But as most of us experience, life happens. \u00a0My gym changed their entire schedule of classes, and my favorite teacher isn\u2019t available at the times that I like to go. \u00a0So I stop going for a few weeks, and once again begin to identify with being a couch potato. \u00a0It is the hardest thing in the world to start going again. \u00a0I was overweight as a teen, and can easily take on that identity if I am not careful. Eventually, I commit to exercising every day for at least 15 minutes. \u00a0I give myself permission to leave the gym after 15 minutes but I have to go. \u00a0Once you step foot in the gym, your subconscious mind identifies as an active person. \u00a0Even if you leave after a few minutes, you were there. \u00a0No one will know how long you have worked out that day. \u00a0Maybe the girl at the front desk notices, but who is she to judge?<\/p>\n<p>The most successful people in any area of life will come across a block or stagnant energy. \u00a0There is nothing wrong with taking a break or having some down time. \u00a0Our goal is to make sure that the down time doesn\u2019t become a crutch that limits our ability to create and be in alignment with the law of attraction. \u00a0I invite you to scan your life right now and think about that goal list you have in your head. \u00a0Feel free to comment below with an area that you need to improve. \u00a0Seeing it in writing might be just the jumpstart that you need!<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #008080;\">About Our Guest<\/span><\/h1>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/dougal.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-15831\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/dougal-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"dougal\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>Everyone wants to know when they will find true love, if they should change careers, and how to follow their dreams. In short, everyone would like a peek into their future! Psychic and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.dougallfraser.com\/services\/\">Cosmic Coach<\/a>\u00a0Dougall Fraser, who provides life coaching, is an expert in the business of futures. Whether you want to examine your past, present or beyond,<strong>Dougall Fraser<\/strong>\u00a0has a special ability to tune into your life. His relatable voice, down to earth humor, and dead-on predictions got him named\u00a0<a title=\"The best psychic in Los Angeles\" href=\"http:\/\/www.dougallfraser.com\/\">Best Psychic<\/a>\u00a0in Dallas at the age of 20. Thirteen years later he has garnered international recognition in countless media outlets.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"About Myself, Dougall Fraser\" href=\"http:\/\/www.dougallfraser.com\/about\/\">Dougall<\/a>\u00a0knew at a very early age that he saw the world and others differently. He could easily perceive the issues, secrets and desires in people\u2019s lives. This trait was not always welcomed by others (especially at a party). He gave his first reading at the age of 8 and was regularly counseling adults while still in grade school. By the time he was 14, Dougall began to better understand his abilities and how to best use them for the greater good. He has studied meditation, psychology and healing extensively to enhance his natural talent.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dougall<\/strong>\u00a0has maintained a professional practice for more than fifteen years and is recognized as one of the country\u2019s\u00a0<a title=\"One of the best psychic readers in Los Angeles\" href=\"http:\/\/www.dougallfraser.com\/\">best psychics<\/a>. His international clientele ranges from CEOs and celebrities, to people just like you who may need extra insight. With his own spiritual belief system, Dougall feels that we all have a blueprint for our lives. His main purpose is to help people assess and attain the life that they dream of.<\/p>\n<p>The self titled \u201c<em>Queer Guy with a Third Eye<\/em>\u201d Dougall maintains a refreshing and humorous approach to his new age practice. Dougall utilizes clairvoyance, intuition, empathy, color therapy, interior design, and practical advice to help people achieve their goals and dreams.<\/p>\n<p>Dougall has been featured on many national TV shows, including The Real Housewives of O.C., Dancing with the Stars, VH1\u2019s Best Week Ever, The John Walsh Show and Good Day LA! He has also been recognized as one of the country\u2019s top clairvoyants\/psychics by Spin magazine and The New York Post. He is the author of the bestselling book, But You Knew That Already: What a\u00a0<a title=\"Psychic Readings and Life Coaching By Dougall Fraser\" href=\"http:\/\/www.dougallfraser.com\/\">Psychic<\/a>\u00a0Can Teach You About Life. 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