{"id":15876,"date":"2013-05-24T10:28:45","date_gmt":"2013-05-24T17:28:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/\/new\/\/?p=15876"},"modified":"2015-06-08T10:03:34","modified_gmt":"2015-06-08T17:03:34","slug":"529money-management-avoiding-money-arguments","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/529money-management-avoiding-money-arguments\/","title":{"rendered":"Couples fighting over money: Causes and Cures"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/bigstock-Money-8204584.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-15727\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/bigstock-Money-8204584-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"money\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>What is your money type ? \u00a0Are you a hoarder, binger, spender, or monk? \u00a0What are the\u00a0subconscious\u00a0factors that underlie our attitudes on money?\u00a0How can you avoid hostile fights with your partner on money matters? \u00a0Psychotherapist and author of &#8220;Money Harmony&#8221;,\u00a0Olivia Mellan, \u00a0explains the causes and cures of couples fighting over money. \u00a0CJ and Olivia discuss how to deal with divergent views you may have with your significant other on\u00a0investments, philanthropy, banking arrangements etc.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #008080;\">Show Summary<\/span><\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"line-height: 13px;\"><span style=\"line-height: 13px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/fireitupwithcj.mywholelife.net\/RadioShows\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/05.22.13-Bolen-Segment-31.mp3\">Link to Segment 1<\/a>:\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\u00a0Money psychology: The first step to change is awareness.\u00a0 Are you aware of your money type(s)? Olivia Mellan offers descriptions of the various money types and how these types relate to money myths about money = power, love, security.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/fireitupwithcj.mywholelife.net\/RadioShows\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/05.29.13-Bolen-Segment-4.mp3\">Link to Segment 2<\/a>: \u00a0Stop Money Arguments: Do you have disharmony with a work associate, or with a loved one?\u00a0 What are 4 steps to remedy money disharmony?\u00a0 Olivia Mellan, a money therapist, gives you a real-life example of the type of empathetic conversation you can have to resolve money disputes you are having with another person.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #008080;\">You Tube with our Guest<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Great article written by our guest (Olivia Mellan):\u00a0:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/articles\/199901\/men-women-and-money\">http:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/articles\/199901\/men-women-and-money<\/a><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/-OTaeQ1Q_dI\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h1>Other Shows about Money<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"line-height: 13px;\">Top 3 mistakes about money:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/money-management-top-3-mistakes-we-make-and-how-to-fix-them\/\">https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/2013\/05\/03\/money-management-top-3-mistakes-we-make-and-how-to-fix-them\/<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<li>Mind, Body, and Spirit of Money:\u00a0<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/F1XUNRdyH2k\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/li>\n<li>What do charge your clients?\u00a0<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4MhRkALaqJo\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h1>\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 1.17em; color: #008080;\">About our Guest<\/span><\/h1>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/olivia.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-15877\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/olivia-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"olivia\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>Since 1982, Olivia Mellan has been a groundbreaker in the field of money psychology, couples communication, stress management, and conflict resolution. Her monthly column, The Psychology of Advice appears in Investment Advisor, and she has appeared on\u00a0<em>Oprah<\/em>, the\u00a0<em>Today Show<\/em>, and\u00a0<em>ABC&#8217;s 20\/20<\/em>, and other nationwide media. She also speaks all over the country to businesses, professional groups, and to the general public.<\/p>\n<p>Olivia gives keynotes, speeches, workshops, and seminars all over the country to businesses and professional organizations, womens groups, and the general public on topics such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Men, Women and Money<\/li>\n<li>Achieving Money Harmony In Your Work and Your Life<\/li>\n<li>Couples Communication Skills: Bridging the Gap<\/li>\n<li>Helping Financial Professionals Build Better Client Relationships<\/li>\n<li>Stress Management<\/li>\n<li>Money Conflict Resolution<\/li>\n<li>Money Psychology for Financial Planners<\/li>\n<li>Couples and Money<\/li>\n<li>Money Harmony for Women<\/li>\n<li>Money Harmony in Turbulent Times<\/li>\n<li>Talking to Your Parents About Their Money<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Olivia also offers ongoing, individual consultation and supervision sessions with therapists, counselors, and financial professionals \u2014 in person and\/or by phone.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is your money type ? \u00a0Are you a hoarder, binger, spender, or monk? \u00a0What are the\u00a0subconscious\u00a0factors that underlie our attitudes on money?\u00a0How can you avoid hostile fights with your partner on money matters? \u00a0Psychotherapist and author of &#8220;Money Harmony&#8221;,\u00a0Olivia Mellan, \u00a0explains the causes and cures of couples fighting over money. \u00a0CJ and Olivia discuss<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":19875,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[480,481,501,56,58],"tags":[],"yst_prominent_words":[4791,4788,4796,4789,1120,4793,4792,3196,4797,4588,4200,4795,4787,4786,4794,4785,1309,1655,4790,4798],"class_list":["post-15876","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-communication-skills","category-conflict-resolution","category-money","category-show-archives","category-business"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/bigstock-Money-8204584-compressed.jpg","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15876","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15876"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15876\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20896,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15876\/revisions\/20896"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19875"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15876"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15876"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15876"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=15876"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}