{"id":22359,"date":"2015-09-09T14:41:32","date_gmt":"2015-09-09T21:41:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/\/?p=22359"},"modified":"2017-10-02T20:28:14","modified_gmt":"2017-10-03T03:28:14","slug":"parent-inside-scoop-for-college-admissions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/parent-inside-scoop-for-college-admissions\/","title":{"rendered":"Neurotic Parent&#8217;s Guide to College Admissions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How do you get the upper hand in the college admission process? JD Rothaman, Parent blogger and author of the &#8220;Neurotic Parent&#8217;s Guide to College Admissions&#8221;, shares tips on getting into a good college.<\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t lose sight of the BIG picture<\/h2>\n<p>Get answers by clicking on the video links:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=1m46s\"><strong>1:46<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>What is the BIG picture about getting into college that we neglect to see?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=2m24s\"><strong>2:24<\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/a>What great colleges did not make the list of top 25 prestigious schools?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=3m26s\"><strong>3:26<\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/a><u>What<\/u> does it mean when your kid didn&#8217;t get into a selective school?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=4m58s\"><strong>4:58<\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/a>What is the BIG picture about getting into a prestigious school?<\/p>\n<h2>Which schools should I apply to?<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=6m02s\"><strong>6:02<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0Why is it important to have a good list of safety schools?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=6m59s\"><strong>6:59<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0How much should you guide your child through the process?<\/p>\n<h2>How to groom my kids for a selective school (grade, test scores, extracurricular)?<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=9m18s\"><strong>9:18<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>What does JD advise about extracurriculars?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=10m50s\"><strong>10:50<\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/a>How do colleges know when a \u201chelicopter parent\u201d has been involved in the admissions process?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=12m20s\"><strong>12:20<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0Do jobs count as valid extracurriculars?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=14m15s\"><strong>14:15<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0What do we need to know about GPA?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=16m23s\"><strong>16:23<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0What happens when your child does poorly in a class?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=21m24s\"><strong>21:24<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0What is a mean SAT number? Which colleges don&#8217;t focus on scores (Fairtest.org)?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=22m35s\"><strong>22:35<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>What are some tips on how to prep for the SAT or ACT? (20 min\/day and check your answers)<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=28m10s\"><strong>28:10<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0What are some tips on essay writing?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=45m49s\"><strong>45:49<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>Why are international students crowding out students in the US?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=46m52s\"><strong>46:52<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0What are some tips for soon to be empty nesters?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=48m34s\"><strong>48:34<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0What is the fallacy about STEM?<\/p>\n<h2>What is the marketing game colleges are playing?<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=29m21s\"><strong>29:21<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0How does the US News and Report rankings work? Why are all the test scores so high?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=30m35s\"><strong>30:35<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>How does Superscore work?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=31m18s\"><strong>31:18<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0How often do you take the test?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=32m18s\"><strong>32:10<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0How many times should you take standard tests? Can you cancel a testing if you are having a bad day?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=36m09s\"><strong>36:09<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>How many schools should you apply to? Average number is 20 schools.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=37m47s\"><strong>37:47<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>How some schools are no longer &#8220;safety&#8221; schools? What is a strategy for finding a safety school?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=39m06s\"><strong>39:06<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0What is the marketing game that colleges play to look more attractive?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=40m11s\"><strong>40:11<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0What is the TUFT&#8217;s syndrome and yield protection? Why demonstrated interest is so important?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lzQlFJlz6Ps?t=42m05s\"><strong>42:05<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0Why are really good schools ranked so low in US News Reports?<\/p>\n<h2>Early Admissions, Legacy Status, Getting off the Wait List<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"How to get into the Ivy League?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/hsV-g_O8ee0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2>Other Resources<\/h2>\n<h2>What is the marketing game colleges are playing?<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>College Admissions<\/strong>: Robin Mamlet, former dean of admission at Stanford, Swarthmore, and Sarah Lawrence, and journalist and parent Christine VanDeVelde provide expert, comprehensive and compassionate guidance for every student and parent at each step of the college application process in their best-selling book \u201cCollege Admission: From Application to Acceptance, Step by Step\u201d. \u00a0Join CJ and Christine VanDeVelde to learn the advice and input of over 100 additional experts, and 50 deans of admission on the college admissions process. Also, check out:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/show-archives\/chances-of-getting-into-college\/\">Getting into highly selective schools<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&#8211; See more at: https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/college-admissions-process\/#sthash.bL8DwWnh.dpuf<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>How you can improve your chances of getting into college?<\/strong>\u00a0CJ interviews Elizabeth Wisnner-Gross, the author of \u201cWhat High Schools Don\u2019t Tell you: 300+ Secrets to Make your Child Irresistible to Colleges by Senior year\u201d. Get the inside scoop on what college admissions are looking for and why?\u00a0Also, learn about the College Admissions Process. &#8211; See more at: https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/chances-of-getting-into-college\/#sthash.BnnnHWIq.dpuf<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Getting accepted to college (Christine VanDeVelde)\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/dqpUH_GfZ80?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h1>About LA Times Bestselling Author,Emmy-Winning TV Writer, College Whisperer<\/h1>\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Neurotic-Parents-Guide-College-Admissions\/dp\/098345941X\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1327871095&amp;sr=8-1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/jdrothman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/NPG_Front-Cover-small.jpg\" alt=\"Neurotic Parent's Guide to College Admissions by J.D. Rothman\" width=\"222\" height=\"333\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In 2008, I went on a relaxing, stress-free eight-state spring break college tour with my older son. During that trip, I discovered that my child was in deep trouble because he would be competing against kids who had been padding their resum\u00e9s since third grade, and he had not yet invented an antibiotic. This inspired my blog about the insanity of the college process, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theneuroticparent.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">www.theneuroticparent.com<\/a>.The blog was soon discovered by the director of admissions at Kenyon College, who published an excerpt in her book, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Im-Going-College-Not-You-Surviving\/dp\/0312607296\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">I\u2019m Going to College, Not You.<\/a> (St. Martins Press, 2010). Now, after surviving a nine-state tour with my younger son, I am ready to reveal all\u2026from when to start your preschooler in Kumon to whether to ask the Dalai Lama for a letter of recommendation.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How do you get the upper hand in the college admission process? JD Rothaman, Parent blogger and author of the &#8220;Neurotic Parent&#8217;s Guide to College Admissions&#8221;, shares tips on getting into a good college. 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