{"id":24197,"date":"2019-08-07T10:00:04","date_gmt":"2019-08-07T17:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/?p=24197"},"modified":"2019-05-09T12:29:31","modified_gmt":"2019-05-09T19:29:31","slug":"relationship-advice-take-for-granted","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/relationship-advice-take-for-granted\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Advice: Take for Granted"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>CJ Liu interviews Dr. Mark B Borg about his book &#8220;Relationship Sanity- Creating and Maintaining Healthy Relationships&#8221;. Mark describes what prevents us from being in a loving, honest, and openhearted relationships. Mark shares how our childhood experiences caretaking for our parents affect our comfort with intimacy. What are the two parts of a dynamic of givers and takers that cause us to resist loving others and being loved ourselves? Mark demonstrates a powerful tool (40-20-40) as a way for each person to come closer to each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Relationship Advice: YouTube Video<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Relationship Advice: Take for Granted\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/wWsdleCQi4w?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2>Relationship Advice: IHeart (MP3)<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.iheart.com\/podcast\/209-Fire-it-up-with-CJ-25229902\/episode\/relationship-advice-take-for-granted-30923503\/?embed=true\" width=\"300\" height=\"400\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2>More on Dr. Mark B Borg<\/h2>\n<p>Mark B. Borg, Jr., Ph.D. is a community and clinical psychologist and a psychoanalyst practicing in New York City. He is founding partner of The Community Consulting Group, a consulting firm that trains community stakeholders, local governments and other organizations to use psychoanalytic techniques in community rebuilding and revitalization.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Relationship-Sanity-Creating-Maintaining-Relationships\/dp\/1942094817\">https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Relationship-Sanity-Creating-Maintaining-Relationships\/dp\/1942094817<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Related Articles on Relationships<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/relationship-magic\/\">https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/relationship-magic\/<\/a><\/li>\n<li>https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/how-do-we-love-others-segment-3-shepherd-hoodwin\/<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CJ Liu interviews Dr. Mark B Borg about his book &#8220;Relationship Sanity- Creating and Maintaining Healthy Relationships&#8221;. Mark describes what prevents us from being in a loving, honest, and openhearted relationships. Mark shares how our childhood experiences caretaking for our parents affect our comfort with intimacy. What are the two parts of a dynamic of<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":24198,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[7673,7679,7677,7675,7674,7680,7678,7672,7676],"yst_prominent_words":[1408,7809,7810,1607,1604,1714,6254,7808,7807,2800,6350,2116],"class_list":["post-24197","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-how-to","tag-inspiring","tag-life-coach-advice","tag-life-coach-tips","tag-live-a-good-life","tag-motivational","tag-personal-growth","tag-personal-mastery","tag-self-improvement-interviews"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/everton-vila-140207-unsplash.jpg","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24197","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24197"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24197\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24199,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24197\/revisions\/24199"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24198"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24197"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24197"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24197"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fireitupwithcj.com\/dev\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=24197"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}